Why I Donate to CHADS: David's Story–In His Own Words

Our son, Steven Robnak, died by suicide about six years ago. He was 25 when he took his life. Parents should never have to feel the pain of losing a child. We started going to support groups for parents whose children died by suicide and, unfortunately, learned how common this was—we had no idea. We met another couple that also lost their son and told us about an organization they were involved with called CHADS. After hearing more about CHADS, we were surprised to learn about an organization that worked to prevent suicides and wanted to know more.

David Robnak (center), with wife Karen, (right) and son Steven (left) in 2015

David Robnak (center), with wife Karen, (right) and son Steven (left) in 2015

Seeing a Presentation Made the Difference

After contacting them, we had a chance to attend an orientation about CHADS and saw firsthand what they present in the schools. We learned that of the 50,000 plus students that hear these presentations each year, approximately 15% reach out for help and are connected to their school counselor. CHADS has removed the stigma of talking about suicide and depression so that children can feel comfortable asking for help.

I have had friends call us, knowing our situation with Steven, telling us their children have contemplated suicide. We see all the pressure that kids deal with today growing up with social media and the pressure to fit in and the need to feel successful. Kids should not have to deal with the same pressures as adults.

We have donated our time and money to CHADS because we never want another family to feel the pain and loss that we have felt. If they can prevent at least one death, our time and money will be well spent.

Sincerely,

Karen and David Robnak